Hai…. Assalamualaikum again… this is my second time I writing my blog…. My first topic that I wanna 2 share with u guy is about F.R.I.E.N.D……
Maybe u all wonders why that I’m choosing such a regular topic…. Am I right..? cos the answer was very simple. We all need friend….. Friend means everything to us as a normal human. Because of the need of sense of belonging, we all need friend in our life….. who are we without our friend? Maybe some of us think that “I can live without friend” haha… this sentence will be not lasting… believe me…
I wanna ask u 1 short question….. ‘What do people find most pleasurable in their daily lives?.... the answer is…… first is Sex and second is being with ur friend…. This research has been made by Neuroscientist Morten Kringelbach, University of Oxford. Ha….. now u got what I mean… friend help us 2 being happy in our life…
But, it still have a but…. What kind of friend that we wanna have…? Friend is easy to find, but true friend is harder than u can think to find. Rasulullah s.a.w was said, ‘ a good friend is the one who will make u remember Allah when u r looking he/her face’. This means as, a good friend is friend that will encourage u to doing a good things and benefit u in ur life. Good friend are who are sitting beside u when u have a problem, be there to u when u r in ur hard time, feel the same happy and pain in ur life, will inform u when u are doing something wrong, and of course, the one who will not tell others about bad side of urs…
Now lets think….. do u have such a that friend in ur life…?
Does u know, if u wanna success in ur business, be a friend with ur enemy….. this kind of friend is most dangerous friend ever…. They will be ‘gunting dalam lipatan’ to u….. they will take an advantage to u. their target is wanna to let u down. This kind of friend is hard to tress. They will pretend as a most sweet person to u, but when the time is coming, u will know the true colour of him/her. So watch out friend…
Sociologists have said that, we will know who really ur friend are at least 6 month after u being friend with him/her….
I think that all 4 now….. thanks 4 ur time… meet my site again….
Assalamualaikum….
